once upon a time we romeos and juliets were fuzzy-headed puppies as far as love was concerned
giddy and whizzing through the high-voltage fun ride of young lust
making it up as we went along
clumsily knocking things over or up
weeping and dusting ourselves off
and growing and learning as decades pass
and we necessarily change
because
our seasoned romeo does not suit a galadrielized juliet
and we have largely shed many of the illusions that drove our pubescent chariots
.
still the feelings forged in adolescence linger
even over subsequent decades
how nice it still and always is to kiss
how nice to love
and how astonishing it is to fall into the deepness of a lover’s eyes
and how blossomous it is to be stupefied by the exchange of adorations
and to rediscover what it is to be fibrously alive
.
elderly lovers seem creepy or cute to many
but callow romeos and jejune juliets have no clue what delicate layers
and fathomless depths
may be found
if the search for true love is made lifelong
and the willingness to love wholeheartedly persists