For the old and affluent there is a place where surrounded by breathtaking natural beauty all basic needs of safety, nutrition, socialization and entertainment are met

And comfort is provided, but comfort is a variable, and much depends on the medical history of the resident

And much also depends on the attitude of the resident

For instance a man who really ought to use either walker or wheelchair is compelled by pride and fear to use neither and the front desk clerk often watches spellbound as the man takes almost-falling-over shuffling steps to cross the lobby

But there is also a lady who by all rights ought to be bitter and angry due to disability stealing her dancer’s grace and quicksilver gift for repartee who is as chipper and kindly and uncomplaining as can be

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“Play with the cards you are dealt” is an adage for the ages and for the aged as well

And some of these cardplayers are grateful to have been dealt the late-life aces of a superb nest and tender loving care and others mark time joylessly waiting to die and the best play their hands skilfully and don’t mind losing because the real joy

Is in the playing!