I found Michelle at Sweet Republic. She was filling in as the ice-cream lady so that Jennifer could have a break. While she was ringing up one customer, another was waiting, so I said, “Want me to . . .?” and Michelle said, “Sure.” So I fixed a single-scoop salted caramel on waffle cone for the gentleman and Michelle rang him up. All customers satisfied and gone, Michelle looked me in the eye and said, “So, you came to see if I would let you go early.”

WOW, what a Mom of a Manager she is, and I mean that as the highest of compliments. She can do every job, and does. She knows more about what’s going on here, there and everywhere than just about anyone else. She will cut you a little slack if the situation warrants it, but Heaven help you if you do something unprofessional–I saw her appropriately dress down a server for rudeness to a diner some months ago. That the server learned the lesson and is still working for us is testament to Michelle’s effectiveness.

Once upon a time in the 80s there was a great multi-location restaurant here in the Valley, Bill Johnson’s Big Apple. Michelle was one of the waitresses (they didn’t call wait staff ‘servers’ back then) and was therefore required to take orders in cowgirl boots, blue jeans, and a pair of six-shooters strapped to her hips, walking on a sawdust floor. She tells me the guns were heavy and clunky and could leave bruises. She also has the inside scoop on the last days of the Big Apple, what went wrong and what happened when they tried to set it right. We share the feeling that the passing of the Big Apple was a crying shame.

Her restaurant-management education also included a stint at Coco’s, one of the few chains that passes muster with my sweet-but-demanding mother. Michelle’s decades of dealing with every imaginable food service scenario, including my unknowingly laying down a trail of maple syrup from a front table all the way back to the dish pit not noticing the little chalice was tipped over after sloppily bussing the table, plus her keen native intelligence and empathy, makes her a superb leader-by-example. Add a mischievous sense of humor and you have one hell of a force to reckon with.

I fear Michelle will not like this portrait. She does not like the way her eyes look, and I have tried to accurately report them here. I cannot do otherwise, because her eyes ARE her, with her lifetime of laughter and working unbelievable hours and having and tough-loving kids, biological and otherwise. So please forgive me, Michelle: I drew you as I see you, more real and more appealing than any supermodel could ever hope to be.

tro-11212016

Last post I said I would explain, so here goes. “Time running out” refers to employment-as-I-know-it. Late last week two managers kindly took me aside for a look at the handwriting on the wall, which says that they will require more hours from me in December than I am permitted to work and still keep my income under the ceiling imposed by the Social Security Administration. Upon the advice of one of the managers I have written an e-mail to Human Resources explaining the situation and outlining what I saw as my possible options. I courtesy-copied the e-mail to the two managers, and one of them was complimentary. I have not yet had a response from Human Resources.

A change in employment, I have read, is one of the ten most stressful life-events there is. So “the spoon reveals,” and continues to reveal, my reflection with its anxiety and uncertainty.

I will finish the drawing after I receive word from HR. One way or another, I expect to see relief on the final face.

2016-11-18-15-19-54

Here are two ladies who demonstrate that a loving heart receives more beauty each passing day; and the owner of the heart becomes more beautiful.

Maggie looks vulnerable in my drawing. She is anything but. Her schedule at the Devonshire Senior Center includes Tai Chi, painting, Bible study, and Thursday walking with the FIT PHX program. And it was she who suggested the deal wherein we trade Spanish lessons for drawing lessons. What a Dynamo!

Today we had another Spanish lesson at the Devonshire Senior Center. I also finished a drawing that had been bothering me to finish it. It is flawed, but it is done, and it is possible to move on and do better.

Here is a composite:

post-11172016

It borders on criminal not to know Spanish here in the Southwest. It is a pleasure and a relief to be righting that particular wrong for myself now.

Leonard Cohen has ambled off this mortal coil after a long Earthly existence. My friend Donna Sue Atkins introduced me to his musical performance many years ago, cueing up “Suzanne” and saying that Cohen’s banter in one concert included, “I’ve now depressed several generations . . .” I am grateful for his insights and emotional tapestries. His tortured voice will be missed.

len-cohen-11112016

 

Today is a double-barreled Two For One lesson. It is Spanish and Drawing, and it is A Letter and An Illustration.

letter-11102016

First I wrote my teacher (mi maestra) the best letter I could with the meager Spanish I know already. The one word I guessed at, I guessed wrong, and she corrected it.

lesson-11102016

While I drew and got words I demonstrated drawing technique to Maggie, so she got a lesson too. That’s the deal we have.

 

My friend Suz Dykes took a break from Facebook because of the political nastiness–then came back today of all days. I promised her some light and/or fluffy and/or inspirational stuff. Hope you like this, Suz!

2016-11-09 16.32.07.jpg

boy and cat and dream

the boy has a cat on his shoulder

the cat has a dream in her head

the dream is of warmth to enfold her:

a boulder in sun as her bed.

the dream snaps as shut as a locket

the cat feels the boy stroke her fur

the boy has a treat in his pocket:

unsocketed catnip–she’ll purr.

 

LaShawna_20161108_0001.jpg

LaShawna is gracious, wise, charismatic, patient yet able to invoke urgency when need be, a warm and eloquent conversationalist, gentle by nature yet tough as nails when a situation warrants it. I wish my drawing did her justice. She looks like her soul. Not all of us do.

She worked her way up to management from the ground up, starting as a cook. As with all managers at SSP I have worked for, she is capable of filling in in any capacity, and does so at the drop of a hat. She leads by example.

And she Lives, and Laughs, and Loves. She lives fully. She laughs richly. The love in her heart overflows for her family.

I am glad to know her, and always glad to see her. I’m grateful for her wisdom and kindness. I wish her the success she so deserves.